(What “Sexual Experience” is)
Sexual experience or activity in a premarital relationship is any act carried out by the couple to satisfy inherent sexual needs or desires. It can also be seen as any behaviour that someone engages in consensually with the other partner that is considered sexual by the involving partners through the satisfaction that comes along with it. This may include genital sex (penetration), kissing, fondling, oral sex, naked body rubbing, audio or video sex etc. The Bible doesn’t give a list of sexual stuff you can do in premarital relationships simply because you are not supposed to do anything sexual in such relationships.
It is only a Kiss – anything wrong with that?
I hold the view that God’s design of sex does not merely include the act of sexual intercourse. It includes everything that leads up to that act, and any single thing we do or engage in, in the sexual process is meant to end in that act. This is what we call foreplay, and I think it’s a fundamental part of God’s design for sex. This truth manifests itself out not only in our emotions, desires, and common sense but literally in our physical bodies. The moment two people begin kissing or sexually touching each other, both the male and female body – without going into details admit that they are “preparing” for sex. All the required body part, both within and outside react accordingly. It is a natural response. God has designed us that way. This means that whenever we begin any sort of sexual activity, our bodies know exactly what is going on and even if we try to deny it in our minds, the body refuses to deny it. That is why you begin to experience all those feelings. These feelings are enough evidence of what is happening.
